Dynamic Couples Trauma Therapy

The best couples therapists say that any relationship in which your core wounds are triggered (conflict, misunderstandings etc) is a “gold mine” for healing at a profound level both within yourself and your partnership. This is because subconsciously we choose partners who bring up our deepest childhood wounds and whom we see the opportunity to heal them with. Paradoxically, the “best” and “worst” partner for you could be the same person, depending on their willingness and ability to engage in this deep work. Every relationship is a mirror, and its so frustrating at times! 

I have designed Dynamic Couples Trauma Therapy to where we can go into each partner's subconscious using EMDR or IFS therapy (or both). In most cases we will have the second partner present, either witnessing the process, or actively engaging with their own thoughts and realizations as well. Understanding your partner’s core wounds, activation style, shadows and needs from a subconscious level allows us to access a whole new level of intimacy and self responsibility. 

We will also deep dive into attachment styles, childhood experiences and communication with radical honesty, accountability and authenticity. I offer a free consultation as always.